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Among the many reasons women cite for obtaining abortions are the following:
- Having a child would interfere with the woman's education, work, or ability to care for dependents;
- The woman cannot afford a baby; and/or
- The woman is having relationship problems/does not want to be a single mother.
It seems adoption would largely (albeit not wholly) mitigate these potential problems for women with unplanned pregnancies. However some women believe that, after having carried their child for nine months, adoption would be very emotionally painful. Some women fear the idea of "always wondering"--wondering how the child is developing, how the adoptive family is treating the child, and whether the child wonders about her mother.
Perhaps this is where open adoption would be helpful. The Independent Adoption Center (IAC) cites studies showing that adoptees in open adoptions have better psychological outcomes than adoptees in semi-open or closed adoptions. Additionally, as the IAC explains:
Birthparents in open adoptions typically demonstrate positive self-esteem related to responsible decision making and feeling in control of their life -- making a plan for the baby, instead of abandoning him/her. Birthparents with open adoptions work through the normal feelings of grief much more quickly and easily.While open adoption does not solve all the problems of unplanned pregnancy, it is a type of family structure that may make it more plausible for a woman to give life without wreaking havoc on her own.